The Man of Her Dream/The Woman Of His

Greetings All,

Let me continue of reviewing the Multiple Streams of Inpiration book. Let’s move on to Chapter 2 – The Man of Her Dream/The Woman of His… loving It/living it!.. by Joel & Kathy Davission..

It is said that successful people have great marriages! Meaning you may have everything like wealth, career, good health & soo on BUT to have COMPLETE SUCCESS, you must have a happy marriage..

I have to agree with both Joel & Kathy on that.. Don’t you?

To my surprise, I found out that the husband is the cause of everything.. The cause of failed marriage in any circumstances. Husband are the root cause! Ya.. You better believe it! Husband are the culprit! Husband out there.. I was shocked & I think you too are as shocked as I am.. Here is the reason given by Joel & Kathy..

Husband is the head of a family.. Agreed.. If the husband nurtures wife with love, wife will be overflow with vitality, peace & joy. They will be balance & wise. If the husband commit himself to be a great husband, the wife will be a great wife automatically.

You become the Man that God has called you to be by becoming the husband that your wife needs you to be. Husband are designed to initiate positive love regardless of his wife action & wife is designed to respond warmly & positively.

HOWEVER if the husband treats wife badly without giving love & hearing all the complains the wife wants to share.. She will reply with the same kinds.

Imagine this, during courtship with a woman, you give a lot of love & priority to her. Her needs are fullfilled. You do anything that you can to woo here & to get her to marry you. You pamper her.. she responded well with you.. She married you.. What happen after marriage? Husband mission tends to shift to the other things like hobby, other electronic stuffs, sports & soo on..

Wife respond to the life the Husband feed her.. I have to agree with the reasons given above.. I have been married for 3 years now.. My mission do sometime shifted at some point.. BUT we don’t do it intentionally. We need to be told of our mistake.. Joel & Kathy help me & maybe a lot of husbands realised that..

To have a long successful marriage, we need to take note of the points below:-
*Both Husband & Wife are giving & receiving
*It always start with the husband by listening, valuing, prioritizing, honoring & answering his wife question.
*Husband is the Initiator. Wife is the Responder.
*Man own respect from wife by reflecting His love to her everyday. Real Living Manhood. A wife cannot help but to admire & respect the man.

A very important points to take note.. I have briefly explaining on the above. I have skipped a few though.. However if you want more about this you can go this website www.unchainedhearts.com Joey & Kathy website . You can also go to Johnny Wimbrey website www.JohnnyWimbrey.com to get the Multiple Streams of Inspirations Book.

Regards,
Muhammad Riduan Ramli (Uanz)